Coming home after studying abroad is an emotional rollercoaster. I remember getting off the plane and feeling both happy and sad at the same time. The sounds of English, the ease of getting around the airport, and the first bite of American food all seemed like home, but something had changed. I still had friends, rituals, and little things that made me happy in my host country, which was hundreds of miles away. I miss the café on the corner where I could get a $1 espresso, stroll through narrow cobblestone alleyways, and the feeling of amazement that came with finding something new every day.
Studying abroad has altered me in every way. I’ve learned to be more flexible, more sure of myself, and more aware of the world outside of my own. I perceive issues in a different way now. Instead of seeing problems, I see chances to improve. My family and friends tell me that I am more open-minded and independent now that I am back. I walk differently now, with a modest pride in having learned how to get around in new places, languages, and cultures. Even small things, like how I spend my time or talk to people I don’t know, seem more planned. This encounter didn’t simply provide me memories; it changed the way I see things.
But getting used to being back home hasn’t been as easy as I thought it would be. It’s true that reverse cultural shock happens. Everything seems the same, but I’m not. I miss the sounds of another language in the streets and the slower pace of life abroad. Life here feels too fast-paced and obsessed with technology. At first, even grocery shopping was too much to handle. There were so many options and not much charm. It’s strange how things that used to seem familiar can now seem unfamiliar.
To students who want to study abroad in the future, this is my advice:
- Pack smart but light. You don’t need everything you believe you do. Make sure you have space for the memories and treasures you’ll bring back.
- Say yes to things that make you a bit nervous, like speaking in a different language, going on a trip with new friends, or attempting something new.
- Be there. It doesn’t take as long as you think. Take pictures of the moments, but don’t live via your phone.
- Get ready to go home. Be kind to yourself as you adjust to things again. It’s fine to feel like you don’t belong in your own nation for a spell.
Above all, remember that this will stay with you long after you get home. You won’t just come back with stories and pictures; you’ll also come back with a better understanding of yourself and a broader view of the world that will change your life. And believe me, that’s the best souvenir of all.