Now that I’m done with my experience studying abroad in Benin, I have learned a lot, but not only in terms of academics; it also has been a very personal journey for me. In retrospect, there are certainly things I wish I’d known before I flew the coop. So to anyone about to undertake your own journey, here’s some advice I hope will be helpful.
1. Be prepared for the unexpected — especially with language.
I arrived here cocky in my French, assuming I was home free. I soon discovered that a lot of people in Benin spoke Fon, a native language that sounds nothing like French — until it does, that is. It tripped me up more times than I care to think about. One day I felt like I got it all; the next, nothing. Don’t hesitate to ask for an explanation, and keep confusion from stopping you. It’s part of the process.
2. Pack light—but smart.
I overpacked. In hindsight, I’d have packed more breathable clothes, comfy walking sandals, sunscreen, insect repellant and a bit less of everything else. You’ll likely require fewer “just-in-case” outfits than you imagine. And pack something small that makes you feel at home: a photo, a book you love or your favorite snacks. It works better than you’d think.
3. Stay open, but grounded.
Eat new stuff, meet folks, and find interesting places to go, but don’t forget to also listen to your inner voice. Culture shock does exist, and it’s perfectly understandable if you get drained. What really made it easier for me was having a close connection with my loved ones. A small talk or a call was very significant on the days I felt down.
4. Be present.
These moments were the highlights of the trip so far and the best part that made the whole journey worthwhile are those small, unplanned happenings: trying to understand each other during the language mix-up, catching a sunset after class, or just strolling through a local market. Absorb everything. If you like, write down your thoughts. These memories will be with you for life.
5. A good attitude goes a long way.
You will definitely make some errors and feel confused at times, but it is not a big deal. Just have fun, practice some patience, and be inquisitive. Indeed, the smile is very much a universal language.
